Father’s Day Thoughts
Tonight I sat down to write about you. How you are my solid foundation. My rock. My strength. My shield. But then I was lost for words and nothing but tears came when my mind was grasping for words. In more ways that I can explain, our lives have been turned up-side down the last two weeks. And yet, you’ve been tirelessly working to help make them feel right-side-up for me. I know that often people will say they don’t know how they’d live without someone…but I couldn’t be any more serious and literal in saying I genuinely don’t even know how to do life without you. I feel abundantly lucky and blessed that God has gifted you to me and that you are the one I spend most my days, most of my minutes, with. I have long thought you were the greatest husband on the planet, but you have proved to me in a multitude of ways that you are the very best of fathers. I could write pages, perhaps volumes, on how I’d define a good father…your name would fall next to each one. I had never loved anyone as much as I’d loved you. Until I met our Son. But the three of us share a love that, I’m learning, can withstand any and all hardships. Even ones I never would have thought we’d be tested to endure. That phrase: iron sharpens iron? That’s us. But that’s only because of you.
Jason, since I cannot think of an accurate way to thank you for loving me, protecting me, and saving me all these years, I decided to share the first letter I’d written to you on your very first Father’s Day. If I hadn’t already written it, I would have laughed and told you I felt the EXACT same way as the author. And the pictures of you truly living this out, even years later, speaks more than my dictionary of words ever could. Nothing’s changed since then, my Love. Except my heart’s stretched out wider and it beats loader for you than ever before. Can you even imagine that?
Thank you for loving me and Eli and for being the anchor of our lives when we are all lost in the waves. I love you more than life. Happy Father’s Day!
xx Shannon (& Eli)










